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You are Unique!

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Stand in front of a mirror. The image you see in the mirror is so unique that there is no one like you. There is no one even looking like you in the universe, and there will never be any. Your looks are God given.

However, the real thing that gives you your unique identity is your attitude. 

If you believe that you are destined to grow, to succeed, to make your mark, you will work harder and smarter. Your self-esteem will be high. You will feel that you have the ability to succeed in any given task. 

If your self-esteem is low, if you do not have a good opinion of yourself, if you believe that what happens to you depends on luck or chance, you will behave in a way that guarantees your failure.

If you are high in self-esteem, you will also be high in self-efficacy. Self-efficacy refers to an individual’s belief that he or she is capable of performing a given task successfully and effectively.

If your self-efficacy is high, you will consciously practice self improvement. When you believe that you’re improving continuously, you will love all that you are doing.

Now, you will not require a leader. You will have ‘self-leadership‘. You will ‘lead’ yourself without depending on others for direction and motivation.

If you practice ‘self-leadership‘, you will:

  • Set challenging personal goals.
  • Effectively collect useful resources.
  • Learn to optimise all the collected resources.
  • Build a supportive network of friends.
  • Search for hidden opportunities in both success and failure.
  • Motivate yourself with a strong belief that you have what it takes to be successful.
  • Believe that you will get the reward you desire once you complete a task.
  • Think and talk success.
These things will help you to successfully your journey to success. You will be able to lead a happy and successful life.

Thought of the Day:

“The most incredible beauty and the most satisfying way of life come from affirming your own uniqueness.” 

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