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Failing Forward!

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All of us fail. As we travel on our path to success, we all hit potholes, take wrong turns, or forget to check the radiator.

So the real issue is not whether you’re going to fail. It is about whether you’re going to fail successfully (gaining experience and profiting from failure) or allow failure to send you in a permanent detour.

“The difference between greatness and mediocrity is often how an individual views his/her own mistakes.“

If you want to continue on the success journey, you need to learn to fail forward!

Some people are often so afraid of failure and rejection, that they spend their whole lives avoiding risks or decisions that could lead to failure. They don’t realize that success is based on their ability to fail and continue trying. When you have the right attitude, failure is not fatal. In fact, it is a springboard to success.

Successful people instead of dwelling on the negative consequences of failure, think of what might have been and how things haven’t worked out. They focus both on rewards of failure and success. They learn from their mistakes and think about how they can improve themselves and their situations.

“Depending on your attitude, failure can either bog you down or help you along on your journey to success!“

Thought of the day:

“Failure isn’t that bad, if it doesn’t attack the heart! Success is all right, if it doesn’t go to the head!“

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