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So many of us hold on to little resentments that may have stemmed from an argument, a misunderstanding, or some painful event. Stubbornly, we wait for someone else to reach out to us, believing this is the only way to rekindle a friendship or relationship. We always keep a grudge.

Whenever we hold on to our anger, we ruin our minds. We believe that our positions are more important than our happiness. They are not. The way to be happy is to let go. Let other people be right.

Usually, when someone takes a chance and reaches out, everyone wins. Both will benefit from this little step.

By doing this, you will enjoy the peace of letting go, and the joy of letting others be right. You’ll also notice that, as you reach out and let others be “right”, they will become less defensive and more loving toward you.

People usually reach back in these cases. But, if they don’t, that’s okay too. You’ll have the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your part, and you’ll become more peaceful yourself.

Thought of the Day:

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is 
the same.

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